Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Desensitized

     It is scary that we now live in a world where tragedy is no longer news; it's sports. As we eat our Cheerios and watch the daily newscast, we crunch away at the cereal while listening to tales of school shootings, suicide bombers, and civil unrest. We gulp down our coffee while gulping down the latest story of neighbors killing each other, and we do not for one second have a gag reflex.
     What is happening? It is now a world of brother versus brother. Brother in a larger context; not blood and family lines, but in terms of the human race. That person of a completely different ethnicity, economic background, or religion is your brother (or sister.) Language is only a small frog leap, yet many people make it (and other factors) huge mountainous barriers that separate us. If we accept the challenge to don some climbing gear and traverse that mountain, we will actually discover that it is nothing more than a hill, maybe with some weeds poking up from the ground.
     The language barrier has been broken time and again by many people (famous and little-known.) Religious differences have been set aside in those rare, beautiful moments when people just come together to love each other. To love one another not as a Christian, or a Muslim. Not as an American, or a Russian. Not as a “minority” or “one of the few who still has some class.” Individuals and groups of people have joined together to celebrate each other; that they all have a beating human heart.
     Everyone has fears, hopes, dreams, desires, strengths, weaknesses, talents, faults; experiences that can teach someone something. Everyone has a person that they love to pieces. At the end of the day, when the sun descends and darkness falls, everyone has the same thoughts of a goal they wish to achieve, or a person they would do anything for, or a fear that keeps needling at them relentlessly. So why do we tend to think that we are all so different?
     Look at the next stranger you see. What do you notice? Their race? What kind of clothing they are wearing? What language they are speaking? Can you look beyond that? Can you see the essence of the human being; that this person standing before you is just like you...a person with thoughts and feelings?
     If a person upsets you, do you blame it on their race or ethnicity? Do you blame it on some invented fault that you imagined for them? If you find a person extremely admirable, do you attribute it to their being so similar to you? Do you search for the ways that this person shares some kind of characteristic or experience with you?
     As you drink that second cup of coffee and skim the side-bar newspaper column about the raging fighting in some country thousands of miles away that you have very little knowledge of, can you step back and imagine that the people in this country are just like you? They get hungry and thirsty. They feel cold and warmth. They long to be comforted. They get angry and happy. They are capable of laughing and crying. They breathe in and out, just like you. They have emotions just like you.

Or is it easier to just turn the page and skip to the Entertainment section and read about some teen idol's latest DUI?  

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