I was on a
bike ride (with my new front tire) cruising through the old city, along the
rocky uneven streets. The sidewalks provide a somewhat safer route, but there’s
always the chance of running over a foot or running out of sidewalk (that
happens here, unexpectedly.)
Traversing
the town, I noticed how hot the sun was beating on my back, and realized that today
was the first day of spring. I smiled, acknowledging that I slipped from summer
to spring, but not without some chilly-weather nights in between. With it being
a Sunday, the shops were mostly closed down, and I marveled at how
unrecognizable things seemed when everything was all shuttered. I still have to
orient myself, I guess.
I decided that
I would take a break from lesson planning and get some more reading done in The
Kite Runner. It’s an excellent book. I stopped at Parque Calderon, which is
probably the most popular plaza in the old city. The environment here was
different from the rest of the town: vendors selling ice cream, teenagers lounging
in their rebellious “American” clothes, old men stealing a smoke from their cigars,
street performers entertaining the children. I took a seat on a bench, in the
sunlight, but out of the sunlight. Cracked open my book, and became immersed in
the storyline of the novel.
A very
young boy walked up to me. Sat down next to me on the bench and muttered
something. All I could make out was “choclo”.
I looked down. He was lugging a big bucket of choclo, large corn kernels, selling it to the parkgoers. “No
gracias” I replied, and returned to my book. The boy remained seated, shuffling
his little sneaker-clad feet. I watched his feet swing back and forth, back and
forth, and after a few moments, he got up and walked away. Milled about the
surrounding area, repeating his line, and an older man dug in his pocket for a
bag of choclo. I kept my eyes on this
little boy…he was no more than 3 feet tall, donning baggy jeans, a T-shirt, and
dark brown hair. His scrawny arms clutched the bucket, his walk a little
lopsided from the weight of the goods in it. In the States, I’d probably never
see such a sight. But here, it was completely normal. A kid selling goods on the street.
That’s when
the culture shock hit. I wasn’t in the States. I was in Cuenca, Ecuador. I
looked around, saw the polleras, the
hats, the shawls, but also the baseball caps, the skinny jeans, the cell
phones. It was surreal. I felt the sun again, it felt so good. I wondered what
the weather was like in Philadelphia now. I heard it was getting cooler, fall
was in the air. I wondered what I’d be doing now if I were back there.
But I wasn’t
there. I was here, sitting on a park bench, listening to the police on every
corner blowing their whistles, wearing their florescent vests and monitoring
the plaza. Suddenly, I hear “hola.” I
don’t move. “Hola.” I look up. A girl
with blonde hair and sunglasses hands me a flyer. I look at it. It’s
advertising belgian waffles. “Muy rico”
she tells me and goes on her way. I watch her leave; where’s she from?
Where am I
from? Where are any of us from? Does a country of origin really define us? Does
this Phillies cap on my head or the visa in my passport truly differentiate me from the other people in
this plaza? That little boy with the choclo,
does he need the same things as me? Or are we worlds apart? I’ve been thinking
of how I love celebrating my differences, of how I like to pay attention to
what makes me unique. But I’ve been reminded that as humans, we really aren’t
that unique from each other. Maybe if we all stopped thinking about what makes
us different, we would see that we all are essentially in need of the same
things. We all want to be at peace, we all want to have friendship and we all
want to feel love. Most of the Ecuadorians here accept me into their culture
and society. Back at home in Philadelphia, I see residents who get all into a
tizzy over someone from Central America or Asia who can’t form a perfect
English sentence. I’m not trying to preach anything or delve into anything
political, but aren’t we all pretty much the same? Could this realization, if
everyone had it, put an end to all the turmoil the world is facing?
So I
reflect this Sunday afternoon, sitting here in Ecuador. And maybe somebody in
China, or Norway, or Kenya is reflecting on the same thing.